This Modern Love interview podcast features singer-songwriter Neko Case discussing her new memoir, "The Harder I Fight, The More I Love You," which details her experiences with neglectful parents. The conversation explores Case's childhood experiences of poverty and parental absence, her feelings of being unwanted, and her eventual understanding of her mother's struggles with addiction. Case reads an essay by Caitlin McCormick about estrangement from a mother, highlighting the complexities of forgiveness and the importance of self-care. The interview concludes with Case reflecting on finding support in her chosen family and the ongoing impact of her childhood experiences. A key takeaway is Case's powerful statement that "I understand addiction less every year," which resonates with listeners who have experienced similar familial challenges.