We've all heard about the mental load, but what about kin keeping?

If you one day stopped wrangling the extended family or your in-laws to attend group gatherings, would you just never see each other again?

Today we explore how much effort you should be putting into being the kin keeper and why it’s ok to take a step back.

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CREDITS

Host: Claire Murphy

With thanks to: Elisabeth Shaw, CEO Relationships Australia NSW

Executive Producer: Taylah Strano

Audio Producers: Tegan Sadler

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Kin Keeping Is The Christmas Mental Load No One Warned Us About

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