In this TED Talk, a marriage and family therapist challenges the traditional views on relationships, highlighting how societal expectations can lead to unnecessary stress and dissatisfaction. The speaker argues that instead of striving for what’s considered "normal," couples should focus on their unique needs and values, even if that means stepping away from conventional relationship models, like living apart. The key is to dig deep and tackle the real sources of conflict, which often stem from external pressures or individual differences rather than the relationship itself. By letting go of preconceived ideas about what a "good" relationship should be, couples can foster a more genuine and fulfilling connection.
