In this podcast episode, therapist Lori Gottlieb dives into common relationship challenges and shares valuable insights. She highlights the significance of doing internal work, reflecting on past relationship patterns, and fostering open communication. Gottlieb encourages listeners to take their time, focus on self-awareness, and grasp their partner's "operating instructions" instead of rushing into commitments or clinging to unrealistic romantic ideals. The conversation also addresses how to navigate tricky family dynamics and underscores the importance of clear communication to prevent misunderstandings and lay a solid foundation for a healthy relationship.