In this podcast episode, Brad Stulberg, author of "Master of Change," shares insights on thriving in a world of constant change and uncertainty. He introduces the idea of "rugged flexibility," which means staying true to your core values while adapting to new circumstances. Stulberg contrasts two concepts: homeostasis, which is about returning to a previous state, and allostasis, which focuses on finding stability through change. He argues that allostasis is a better approach for tackling life's challenges.
To help listeners navigate this journey, he offers practical tools such as identifying core values, cultivating a flexible self-identity, and practicing tragic optimism—embracing life's difficulties while holding onto hope. He also suggests establishing routines and using the "four Ps" (pause, process, plan, proceed) to manage reactions effectively. Stulberg warns against the trend of over-optimizing self-improvement, encouraging a focus on fundamental, consistent practices instead.
