Talking about sex ahead of time didn’t just lead E (28 w queer trans non-monogamous non-binary person from Vermont) and A (26 w queer non-monogam-ish trans guy from from New York) into a few nights of hotness, but has led to a kink-tastic relationship (now that they both know how freaky they each are) of trust, healing and ongoing exploration. This episode is full of *so* many details, including: repurposing back massagers and lollipop vibrators, sex-positive parents, giving vs receiving and untangling desire and trauma, discovering multiple orgasms and squirting, embracing queerness and shucking off performative faux-sexiness, the slow burn of anticipation, light touches, why restraint is so hot, a rope suspension fantasy, squirting methods, early squirt shame, relief of chest impact play, praise kinks, tail goals, hard biting, a love of hickeys, breath play, body worship, inflatable anal toys, (I’m)patience limits, body-safe silicone bottles for insertion, group play dreams for the future, and: a google doc to share it all.

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