We’ve all heard the motivational phrase, “Failure isn’t an option.” It sounds inspiring, but is it really true?

Failure, in reality, is an option—often chosen in the form of inaction, silence, or the unwillingness to engage. How many times have you held back an idea, avoided speaking up, or let a moment pass because of the fear of judgment? Playing it safe is extremely tragic.

In today’s episode, we’re diving into the cost of silence and the hidden price we pay by not putting ourselves out there. What’s really stopping us from stepping forward? And what can we do to shift from apprehension to action?

In this tough love episode, Brett takes the gloves off and gets real about:

The evolutionary roots behind our fear of rejection
How our ego is the true source behind our hesitation to engage
Criticism, its inevitability, and how to turn it into data
Harnessing pride as a shield to protect against self-devaluation
Navigating the fear of success versus the fear of failure

Referenced Episodes:

E259 | Understanding and Overcoming Perfectionism

E105 | Overcoming Imposter Phenomenon

Recommended Resources:

Imposter Phenomenon Manual: If you struggle with imposter phenomenon, we created a free manual that many people have found to be super-helpful. It’s become one of our most downloaded resources, check it out!

Podcast Reflections: Did you know that we create worksheets to help you apply the lessons for each episode? To receive full access to all the reflections from previous and future episodes, click here.

Mighty Networks Digital Community: If you’d like to test your ideas with Brett and our Facilitators, while connecting with like-minded individuals, consider joining our private digital community! For just $19.99/month (with free cancellation anytime), you’ll enhance your communication, leadership, and relationship skills. Don’t miss out—join us today!

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E346 | The Cost of Silence and Not Putting Yourself Out There

The Art Of Coaching