This podcast episode shares powerful stories of Holocaust survivors and their journey after liberation, highlighting their resourcefulness and resilience. It explores the distinction between survival and living, emphasizing the relevance of their experiences to refugee stories today. The conversation delves into the concept of aliveness, the importance of narratives in shaping our experiences, and the idea that relationships can be seen as stories. It also touches on the dynamics of couples' relationships, the significance of boundaries and values, and the reasons why couples grow apart. The speaker explores the concept of security in relationships, the significance of vulnerability and self-worth, and the intricacies of honesty, transparency, and secrecy. The episode emphasizes the importance of seeking authentic connection, valuing sexual experiences, and cultivating erotic intimacy. It also explores the dynamics of relationships, the significance of investing time and attention in our partners, and the concept of conscious uncoupling.