This podcast episode explores the discomfort and challenges associated with using slang and embracing nicknames in language learning. It delves into the internal and subjective nature of permission to use slang, the hesitancy surrounding the switch from formal names to nicknames, and the fear of sounding outdated or receiving negative reactions. The conversation also discusses the self-consciousness and uncertainty individuals feel in various aspects of their lives, emphasizing the need for authenticity and connection. Additionally, strategies for learning and using slang effectively are highlighted, along with the importance of overcoming imposter syndrome. Overall, the episode encourages listeners to embrace authentic connection and take action to build confidence in language learning.