This podcast episode explores the emotional devastation of layoffs and the challenges faced by individuals who believe in the myth of meritocracy. It delves into the personal experiences of Elliot and Miles, a trans couple who navigate the impact of layoffs on their lives and relationships. The episode highlights the profound emotional impact of unemployment, the difficulties of job searching, and the importance of mental health support during challenging times. It also addresses the myth of meritocracy and how it can destabilize individuals' emotions when confronted with unexpected job loss. The conversation concludes by discussing the vulnerability that arises from shattered beliefs and the importance of finding connection and pursuing happiness and fulfillment in unconventional ways.