This podcast episode delves into various aspects of marriage, providing invaluable insights for couples seeking to build and maintain healthy, lasting relationships. Marriage social scientist Carol Breese emphasizes the importance of understanding one's own needs and motivations before entering into a marriage and highlights the significance of identifying both non-negotiables and areas of flexibility. The podcast also discusses the importance of balance between connection and autonomy and outlines five questions couples can ask each other to gain insight into their partner's perspectives. Additionally, it explores the challenges of conflict management and family dynamics, emphasizing the need for couples to learn how to manage rather than solve conflicts. The episode concludes with the significance of rituals and intentional conversations in strengthening a marriage, encouraging couples to choose to be in a relationship rather than being right.